Have you made your list and checked it twice?

As a mom I feel like sometimes all I do is make lists. If I'm lucky enough to cross a few things off my list it's only a matter of time until I'm adding more to it. One step forward, two steps back. Or, is the perpetual list just a part of life? Would you really want to have everything crossed off your list? In the last few weeks I have come to the realization that there will always be something that you, "Have to get done." Maybe for those of us who are the extreme A-type/list makers this is our "addiction." By finally admitting and saying it out loud, or typing it, I've been able to relax more. I take the days as they come and am able to enjoy now.

This morning I "needed" to put clean sheets on all of the beds, make meals for all three of the little girls, and Tim and I. I could feel myself starting to stress out about it. My mental list was caving in on me, then I realized what was going on. I took a step back and prioritized.  In doing so I was able to realize that this is my day, this is what I do, everything will get done. There is no reason to get ahead of myself and worry. It all worked out and Tim even made lunch for the two of us.

Now, don't get me wrong, I love a good to-do list and I sure do love to check things off. Sometimes I even write things down that I already completed just so I can check them off (don't act like you've never done that). On one of my lists has been to write our Christmas blog. I had every intention to send Christmas cards this year. But, let's be honest, they're expensive. I decided that when we have a nice family photo in future years we will send cards. Until then, it's the digital version!

A picture speaks a thousand words, or so they say. So, I thought I would do a recap of our year in pictures. Here we go, I give you the Reed family highlights of 2014!

January: Our first and last family vacation as a family of 3 (well, 3.5, hello pregnant belly). We had a great time going to see my God-parents in Scottsdale, AZ. 
February: 
 It snowed, a lot! 
This face sums up how we felt about the Bronco's losing in the Super Bowl.
 And, we live in Colorado so we needed to water the lawn, despite the snow above.

March: Our last month as a family of 3!
 First pony tail(s)!
 Daddy cut down and dug up not one, but TWO trees with a little helper! 

April: We found out that we were going to be an aunt and uncle again. Scott and Ashley were expecting a baby due in November, we were so excited! Our second baby was due any day. We waited and waited for our due date, April 8th... And then we waited some more...
But, thanks to baby staying put I was able to see two of my most favorite Middleton sisters.
Nine months, one week pregnant, "smiling," in-between contractions. One last picture before getting in the truck to go to the hospital.  
 Then I finally heard the words, "It's a girl!" You can read, "All about Alexandra."
 A family of four. 
 Time to go home. 
 Our beautiful baby.
I learned that baby wearing is quite possibly one of the greatest things ever and one of the only ways to get things done when you have more than one little one running around. 

May: Karoline turned two! 
 She loved her mini cupcakes! 
She was potty trained before her second birthday! Thank goodness, only one baby in diapers!! 
 Aunt Ashley and Uncle Scott got to come visit!
All the while I had my very own real life baby doll. 

June: After living in our home for a year we have made some friends! I recommend that any and all moms who can take their kids to a library story time do so regularly. Especially if you are searching for a way to feel at home and to meet new people. We met some great friends this way and spent the summer swimming and playing.
 Alexandra's first time in the pool.
The shirt doesn't lie!

July:
 We went to a down town wedding on July 4th. It was an honor to see a grade school friend get married in such a beautiful location!
 One weekend later one of my most dear friends was married! 
 Karoline fell in love with "Frozen," or "Elsa," as she calls it. 
 That's a cloth diaper under there. We have been using them for six months. I am a big fan after being quite skeptical in the beginning. 
We had many a car wash last summer.
August:
 Birthday party fun.
 Tiny toes.
 Playing in the sand box.

September: I was blessed with a fantastic birthday month!
 These two ... 
I received a gift I waited 6 years for! I love it! 

October: This month went by in a blink of an eye.
Sister love? 
Our sweet, darling niece, Anna Mackenzie was born on October 24th! Oh how we wished we could have been there to meet her!
Boo at the Zoo!  
Halloween night

November: 
 We are always on the move...
Always.

December: We have entered the stage in which Karoline says some very funny things.
Karoline: Dad, please wear these shoes. 
Tim: No thank you, I'm going to wear these ones instead.
Karoline: I'm sorry dad, that's not an option.

Since I have my new camera, which I have yet to really play around with, I took way too many pictures in the month of December.








 Karoline's first time seeing Santa, ever!

 Alexandra's first time seeing santa!
 Trying to not down right laugh at my moms attempt to use my camera!





Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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Meal Plans and Minivans ... No chicken left behind!

Last month was my birthday month, I enjoy celebrating each and every day of the glorious month of September. However, I felt like I went to the store A LOT. Come to find out, it felt that way because I did, go figure. I am usually a once a week shopper and if something is forgotten then you do without. Well, in order to keep the husband happy you have to keep the sweet tea flowing. To do that you have to remember to buy the tea bags AND sugar. Perhaps equally as important to the tea (just kidding, this is more important than his tea... maybe), fresh fruits and veggies to keep the family healthy. These things are somewhat common runs to the store around here. But, it was an unforeseen extra trip to the store that came about in a very smelly way that put me over the edge.

Last summer we were in the market for a new car. I wanted a minivan as my mom car. By wanted, I should clarify, what I really wanted was a big SUV. But, a minivan was what I felt we could afford and it would get a little bit better gas milage and would overall be more convenient. It was a vehicle that would allow our kids to be kids. To not have to worry about doors being opened into other vehicles. A vehicle that they could fall out of (don't judge, it happens) and the fall wouldn't result in injury. Tim would just about cringe when I would mention a minivan. He would say, "I'm not buying/driving a dag-gum minivan." We decided to go ahead and get his vehicle first and then we would take care of mine down the road. We were the proud new owners of a Ford F-150. And two weeks later we found out we were expecting our second child. God got a laugh out of that one, I'm sure of it.

I drove the truck and made it work. It was quite a sight to see me step onto the running board and put Karoline in her seat when I was nine months pregnant. I always made sure to park at the end of the parking lot. In order to get Karoline into her seat I needed the door all the way open. It never ceased to amaze me that with a good ten parking spots all around me I always ended up with a car right next to the truck, on the same side as her seat none the less.

Thankfully last January we went to Arizona to see my family. While there my husband got to see the glory and ease of the minivan. He was finally on board.

Recently I started watching another little girl, Olivia (9 months), in our home four days a week. She's a lovely little girl and is such a good baby. Now I really felt I needed a minivan so that all of the girls and I could get out to story time or play dates. We tried to sell our truck but didn't really get anywhere with that. We really do love the truck and decided to keep it and replace our commuter car with a van.   But, we weren't entirely sure that we were ready to get one.

Then the unthinkable happened. The smelly grocery trip I mentioned ... I went to make a whole chicken with vegetables, and I couldn't find it. It had rolled under the seat of the truck (the only place to put groceries when you're not wanting to climb into the back of the truck) and went unnoticed by Tim who brought the groceries in for me. There it sat for two days. When I went to get it out of the truck you could definitely tell there was a not so pleasant odor coming from the chicken. Thankfully a couple hours with the windows down did the trick. Unfortunately for our garbage man, the trash can did not have the same fortune of just needing to air out.

That was it, I was desperate for a minivan and an actual spot for groceries!

We were able to find a great little van that fits nicely into our budget and is perfect for the girls and I. There's a spot for all the groceries, there are even hooks to keep the grocery bags from sliding all over the place! I enjoy driving it and the ease that comes with being able to move about freely. I tell ya what, give a stay at home mama a minivan and it's like giving a carpenter a hammer (I guess this analogy only works if said carpenter had been been using a rock, so imagine that). Quick side note, the other day Alexandra was fussy while in the van, very unusual for her, she's my happy baby. So I pulled over, crawled in back, changed her, fed her (thank you tinted windows) and bam, just like that back on the road! Didn't even have to get out of the car.

With the ease and added mobility you might think, why meal plan for a month? Now that we watch Olivia it makes random trips to the store a bit harder to achieve. Totally a good thing since I don't like going to the store and random trips seem to always cost more than they should.

I decided I wanted to give meal planning for a whole month a legitimate effort. I've planned out what we are going to eat for a month before. However, I had never done all the shopping in bulk so that we had the majority of what we would eat for the month sitting and waiting in the freezer or pantry. Off to Costco we went. I was very glad I had well planned out list and we were able to get in and out with almost everything we needed. A Walmart trip was needed to get some more of the dry/packaged items. Thankfully our Walmart offers the, "Walmart to go," service so I was able to order our groceries online and just pick them up. If you're curious about this please comment or send me an email, I feel this is a great tool for busy moms. Anyway, I also went to King Soopers for the fresh produce. I found it kind of funny that in an effort to stay away from the store I ended up going to three stores in two days. All I can say is I really, really am not going back for at least 10 days, at least!

This was Tim's first time "wearing" Alexandra. It was fun to see what I look like while shopping. He enjoyed having her close. He's adorable! 

So, here it is. This list is categorized by meat type and not the order in which we will eat them. I had the lofty goal of also including a shopping list but, I didn't quite get that far. I was able to make a list of everything you need for meals but I didn't include exact amounts. We purchased all of the dry goods in bulk boxes at Costco so knowing the exact amount wasn't a necessity. With all of Alexandra's food intolerances most of these meals are allergy free. If they aren't I either substitute something (like gluten free spaghetti noodles) or I don't eat it (i.e., cheese on top). In addition to the ingredients I also have how I prepped in italics.


OCTOBER

* = produces left overs
~ = Crock pot

HAMBURGER
*Tacos with spanish rice: 1 lb hamburger, taco shells, taco seasoning, lettuce, tomato, avocado, salsa, sour cream and cheese/rice kit
Did not prep this meal, tacos are quick and easy. We either make nachos or queso dip with the left over taco meat. 
Hamburgers and side salads: 1 lb hamburger, buns, cheese, lettuce, tomato, pickles and condiments/salad bag
Since we bought the ground beef in bulk we prepped the meat into patties and put them into bags and put them into the freezer.
Hobos: 1 lb hamburger, onion, garlic, green beans, corn, potato, mushrooms, carrots, broccoli
Same as the hamburgers, we prepped the meat into portions so that they were ready to use.
~Chili and corn bread: 1 lb ground beef, onion, tomato sauce, diced tomatoes, Rotel, chili beans, tomato sauce, spices, cheese/corn bread
I cooked the beef during nap time, let it cool and put everything a gallon bag and into the freezer it went. 

CHICKEN
~*Black bean and corn salsa chicken: 4 chicken breasts, 2 cans black beans, 2 cans corn, salsa, taco seasoning/tortillas, avocado, cheese, sour cream
Prepped once the girls were in bed as directed on the link.
*Chicken (whole) and veggies: 1 whole chicken, squash, sweet potato, potato, celery, onion and garlic
Cut all of the veggies and put them into a freezer bag so that they are ready to go! 
Hot wings and french fries: 1 bag hot wings, potatoes/celery and carrots
No major prep time necessary.
~Chicken and rice soup: rotisserie chicken, chicken broth, rice a-roni, celery, carrots and onion
Once girls were asleep I cut veggies and got the rotisserie chicken off the bones and into bite size pieces and put them into a container in the fridge. Put everything in the crock pot in the morning. 
Cob salad with chicken: 2 chicken breasts, salad, hard boiled eggs, nuts and veggies
Seasoned and cooked chicken and cut into bite size pieces and put it in the fridge. This way all I have to do is set it in the fridge the night before we will eat it. 

STEAK/STEW MEAT
~*Savory pepper steak: Steak, peppers, onions, garlic and diced tomatoes
Prepped via the instructions on the link. 
~*Beef stew and biscuits: stew meat, beef bouillon, onion, garlic, carrots, celery, potato and stewed tomato/cheddar biscuits
All cut and put into a bag in the freezer, thaw over night and then add liquid. 
Steak bowls/fajitas: Steak, bell peppers, onion, garlic, rice, tortillas/sour cream, cheese, salsa and avocado
Cut steak and veggies and put into a freezer bag. 

SAUSAGE
~*Sausage and peppers: Italian sausage, peppers, onions, garlic and diced tomatoes
Prepped via the link. 
~*Bell pepper soup and quesadillas: Italian sausage, bell peppers, diced tomatoes, tomato sauce, beef bullion and rice/tortillas/cheese
Cooked italian sausage and all ingredients went into a bag, into the freezer it went! 
*Spaghetti: italian sausage, steak, diced tomatoes, tomato sauce, onion and garlic/noodles/garlic bread/cesar salad
Meat all put into freezer pre cut so that it is ready to be made when Tim is ready to make it.
Lasagna: Leftover spaghetti sauce, noodles, ricotta cheese, mozzarella cheese, parmesan cheese and side salad
Made with left over sauce in a disposable container and put into freezer. 
Stuffed Shells: Leftover spaghetti sauce, noodles, ricotta cheese, mozzarella cheese, parmesan cheese and side salad
Same as lasagna. 
Hot dogs: hot dogs, buns, condiments/beans and chips
No prep, that's right we eat hot dogs. Not all the time, but really, who doesn't love a hot dog. Don't kid yourself. 
Brotts: brotts, buns, condiments/veggies
Bought the party pack and froze in serving sizes for our family. 
One pouch feast: Polish sausage, potatoes, zucchini, peppers and onion
Cut and put into a freezer bag. 

SEA FOOD
Shrimp tacos with spanish rice: shrimp, rotel, black beans, corn, corn tortillas/rice packet
Shrimp boil: shrimp, sausage, corn on the cob, red potatoes/biscuits
Fish tacos: cod, tortillas, toppings
Fish and chips: cod, batter, french fries, tarter sauce
All of the sea food we bought was individually packaged and already frozen which makes for easy portioning for meals. 

PORK
*Pulled pork BBQ sandwiches: pork roast, bbq sauce, buns/coleslaw
Tim cooks the pork in our smoker overnight so that it's ready to eat the next day. 
Green chili: pork, green chili's, onion, garlic
Portion of leftover pork put into a freezer bag with all of the other ingredients so that they are ready to be dumped into the crock pot. 
Pulled pork chimichanga: pork, tortillas, lettuce, tomato, avocado, sour cream, salsa and cheese
Leftover pork portioned and put into the freezer. 


EXTRAS
Grilled ham/cheese and tomato soup: ham, bread, cheese and tomato soup
Deli meat and cheese
Chips and salsa
Jalapeño poppers: jalapeños, bacon, cream cheese


There you have it. My first attempt at meal planning for a month. If you would like the recipe to any meals or have any questions on how I did something on the list please feel free to ask!

Enjoy your day my fellow meal planners!

What Karoline did while I prepped a few meals! Thank you Pinterest! 

Grocery list:
MEAT
5 lb hamburger
6 chicken breasts
1 whole chicken
1 bag chicken wings
1 rotisserie chicken
stew meat
Steak (3 meals)
Italian sausage (3 packages)
Hot dogs 
Brotts
Polish sausage (2)
Shrimp (2 meals)
Pork shoulder (2)
Bacon
Lunch meat

CANNED/DRY
Diced tomatoes
Rotel
Tomato sauce
Stewed tomatoes 
Tomato soup
Green beans 
Corn
Pork n beans
Chili beans 
Black beans 
Chips (corn and potato)
Pickles
Salsa
Taco shells
Taco seasoning
Chicken and beef bullion cube
Rice a Roni 

BREAD
Buns (hot dog and hamburger)
Sandwhich bread
Tortillas 

DAIRY
Sour cream
Cheese (singles and shredded)
Cream cheese

PRODUCE
avocado 
Tomato 
Onion
Mushroom 
Broccoli 
Squash
Celery
Lettuce
Salad
Coleslaw
Jalapeños
2 sets Bell peppers (R, O & Y)
Garlic
Potato (russet and red)
Carrots
Sweet potatoes
Corn on the cob 
Green chiles







I'd Never

I thought I would compile a list of things that I thought I would never do... And, then I became a mom.


  • I'd never let my daughter go out in public with messy hair. One time I looked down in the check out of the store and sure enough, I forgot to do her hair. Further more, even when I do do her hair, her carseat usually makes it look just as messy as it was before it was done. 
  • I'd never let my girls leave the house with out a bow in their hair/on their heads. I try really hard to keep bows in their hair or on their heads. When I saw the little dent lines on their heads as newborns this quickly went out the window. However, I do still adore bows on their heads and try pretty hard to keep them in/on their hair.
  • I'd never let my kid eat candy. My husband wanted peanut M&M's in the house (I don't like chocolate). Karoline usually has one every day.
  • I'd never bribe my child with candy. Yea, this happens, I can't deny it. 
  • I'd never let my kids watch TV. For about a month Karoline asked for, "Elsa," every day. Thankfully that stage is over and she never did sit and zone out and actually watch it. Usually it was just on as background noise. But, it was still on. 
  • I'd never yell at my child. I have. I'm not proud of this. I often pray that I will learn to communicate and love my child first and take the time to discipline with a purpose instead of reacting. 
  • I'd never let my child tell me, "No." She does, a lot, we're working on it. We promote, "No thank you." 
  • I'd never be able to be mad at my children. Did I mention that she says, "No," a lot?! I did not realize that I could get upset with a small little person. The same little person that I love whole heartedly and would do anything for including laying down my own life for. This again is an area in which I pray often about. 
  • I would never let a baby sleep in my bed. Karoline was in our bed a couple times. Alexandra slept in our bed for about a month and then slept with us the last few hours of the morning for a few more months. I loved it, it helped me to feel like I was getting some time with just her, even if we were just sleeping. 
  • I'd never put my girls in matching outfits. This was more so a request from my husband. But, we happened to have these onsies that were both hand me downs, how could I not put them in them on the same day!
  • I'd never put social media in front of my kids. As a stay at home mom my communication and time in the outside world is quite a bit less than it used to be. Social media was a way to have interaction with other adults and to know what was going in in the lives of others with out having to call each one individually. 
That last bullet point had been on my heart for quite some time. I was always against missing out on time with my girls thanks to social media, who isn't? It sounds so dumb that this was even an issue for me to begin with. But, there were some mornings that the first thing I would do, before I even got out of bed was scroll through a news feed to see what was going on, in other people's lives. Now, don't get me wrong, social media like Facebook and Instagram truly are a wonderful tool if they are used right. But, in the last six months I came to realize that when I was looking at Facebook I felt that the time I pulled away from my life and my family was being replaced by so much junk. Junk that did not leave me feeling like my time was well spent. Further more, there were times where I would be sitting with my sweet Karoline and I would be focused on my phone, not her. This isn't to say that I feel like she needs 100% of my attention all the time. However, I do feel like by being engaged in scrolling through my phone I was conveying to her that just sitting with her was not enough. 

After Alexandra was born I took the Facebook app off my phone. When we were out of town for a few days I put it back on my phone. Upon returning home I fell back into my old ways of scrolling through the pages. I quickly removed the app once more. Again, I feel like it's so funny that this was even an issue. With the app on my phone it was just all too accessible and such an easy way to waste time. As a mom of two little girls time is a valuable asset to me.

Further more, not only was I taking time from my kids, I was robbing time from myself. I was able to find plenty of time for social media. But, I was not finding or taking the time rather for time with my bible and devotional. We tried a new church a few weeks ago (that we love) and the pastor had a message just for me. He said that in his life he has been focusing on the following: "When you're working, be working. When you're resting, rest." He said that for himself, aimlessly scrolling through Facebook was neither. I feel the same way. I do understand that for some it is restful to catch up with friends and family and there are times that I do enjoy that as well, when the time is right.

Now I start my day with devotional and bible. I do not open up a single app on my phone (unless it is my new bible app that reads to me, love it) until I have been able to have my quiet time. 

Just to drive the message home, I really do feel like this is such a silly problem. One that stay at home moms of the 50s would laugh at I am sure of it. However, it had been on my heart for quite some time. For all of you that stick out this post and read it to the end (thanks by the way) I have a goal in mind for you. If there's something in your life that you feel like you are devoting to much time to and it isn't having a positive impact on your life, cut it out. I've cut out using Facebook on my phone, as well as while my girls are awake. The difference in my day is not one that would be viewed as grand but, I can honestly say that I am a happier in the sense that I'm no longer wasting time. When I get onto Facebook, I get on, look at a few friends and family members pages to see pictures of cute kiddos and that's it. There's no aimless scrolling or time sucking. 

September 3,
"LET THE DEW OF MY PRESENCE refresh your mind and heart. So many, many things vie for your attention in this complex world of instant communication. The world has changed enormously since I first gave the command to be still and know that I am God. However, this timeless truth is essential for the well-being of your soul. As dew refreshes grass and flowers during the stillness of the night, so My Presence revitalizes you as you sit quietly with Me." -Jesus Calling, Sarah Young

For God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. 
- 1 Corinthians 14:33 NKJV